Impartiality - or lack thereof. The importance of preconceived judgments.

"Perhaps we underestimate the necessity of suffering..." The necessity? The necessary and the must, the have-to's, the chains that we feel bound by, twisted within, so that our escape is inconceivable. There are no necessaries - only choice after choice after choice. We have no one to blame, if we find ourselves in chains without a lock, but ourselves.

That is the responsibility which cannot be faced - that I have no responsibilities but that which I make for myself. Startling how many willingly close the door and leave the key on the wall.

Self-validation, and the gulf which seperates us.